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Thank you so much for this video the guilt kills me everyday it’s been 3 years and I think about her everyday… I gave her away because I couldn’t control my drug abuse.. as soon as I got sober, all the emotions hit me like a train realizing what I’ve done and what I have given up

I actually entered my First healthy relationship ever I feels weird and It's the same thing for this Person It's weird and i'm kinda scared But i know that THIS Is true love

Going through my second break up. Came back to this video after 3 years 😢

I'm getting over it

So helpful!

I was the one who messed things up, but we were on a path to fixing things i was on a path to be a better man for here so we could continue what was truly a beautiful relationship but now she’s moved on with multiple people and idk if i could ever be the same again.

So glad I listened to my mum and dad, they got me away from my toxic ex wife, threatened me with a knife, called the cops on me twice fabricating lies, told me that when my mother dies she’ll dance on her grave with a bottle on champagne! As she reckoned my mother had it in for her. Go mum & dad 💪🏻😀

3:02 dude 😵‍💫 thank you for this

I wrote down some fears or feelings I got from my ex moving on too fast: -I am scared I was never loved -I am unloveable -I am forgettable -I am easily discarded -The relationship was just a lie -I don't want her to be happy. -I still want to be with her, but bec of this there might never be any future for us anymore. -I won't find someone better -All my efforts were for nothing. -I am not enough -I am trash/replaceable Now I see that these are not true at all. ❤

6 years together and my shitty ex-wife already hooked up with 5 guys, and is dating 3 people at the same time. Hurts like hell, but fuck that, I am MOVING ON. NO MORE PEOPLE WHO DON'T DESERVE MY LOVE.

Perfect example of why some women are wired chaotic and to run from these types of women. Guys that these types of women left are the lucky ones.

This is one of the reasons why I'm going out of my way to try out all the hobbies, skills, etc. that my ex had which I admired him for. Partially to remove some of the mystique from them, and partially to remind myself that "hey, I can do this myself, I don't need someone else to provide these things for me." It's scary, but it's honestly helping so much and allowing me to have a much more clear view of him as a person - on equal ground, I can see him for who he is, not who I think he is.

Great video❤❤❤

Oh my gosh!!! Bless you!! I needed to hear this because I wasn’t treated right in the connection but cussed him out and now I feel horrible. I needed this. Bless u❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

This is so helpful thankyou. My ex came around mine after no contact. He was dressed to the nines and was showing his new car. I told him i felt he has moved on. He said yes. We kissed and felt all that love came back. He said he loves me and find it hard. I was doing so well and now i feel deflated. He hasnt contacted me since 😢

I don’t know how to love myself and that’s the truth

I just checked - FFS he committed to a girl and said he can't commit to me. I am devastated and definitely regret doing this. Too late. Wish i can unlearn this piece of knowledge.

True love is still out there weather you want to believe it or not ❤❤❤❤😊

My first gf just left me beacuse of this (I'm 20). We've been in a relationship for about a year and a half before i had the first hints: I moved away from my city for university, not so far away, about four hours of train but obviously I had to spend most of the year where i am now. For her everything got boring since the beginning of this new chapter of my life, conservations have been reduced because she got new responsabilites, and were essentially based on her problems because I used to did not complain about mine to avoid her getting worried about me and also because i did't want to waste our time together. About two months ago we had the first conversation about our relationship, but i thought we managed to solve the situation. We arrive to a week ago: when she left me, i felt like something broke apart inside me. I loved her like anyone before and still today I cannot stop thinking about the reasons of this choice that still today are not very clear. I obviously asked for explanations, but nothing, the only answers that i got were "It's the right thing to do", and "it's not your fault", "Idk what i feel". I've always been there for her even the day before everything ended I saved some money to get home and watch her theater play even tho i had an exam 3 days later. . Why people get bored if you do not hurt them? Edit: Sorry if you spot some errors, English is not my first language.

Sometimes rejection is protection And she liked the fact she wanted you to “worship” her for forgiveness ❤

when u say tunel vision and doing anything for the sake of the relationship isn't that what commitment is i don't see how is this bad

Not only that but you can see the highs of the person and the lows on both sides of the table.

There's different levels

Healthy Relationships aren't so dramatic and I feel like it would get boring. With emotional roller coasters and breaking up and getting back together make up sex and all in-between makes it feel LIVE! The ranging of emotions from sad, happy to mad it makes the relationship just feel amazing and horrible but not neutral.

This video is not from the Bible, they have taken their own doctrine about it. same as Buddha, stolen from the Bible the word 'forgiveness, they are in sin against God, for not acknowledging God for his initiation , is unfair, Forgiveness come from God , is a Christian condition, these people have no clue for they are talking about because only Jesus can help to truly forgive, you can't forgive unless you have the accurate information and they don't have it as they are not Christians and using the Bible and Jesus for the intervention. so is meaniless what they say.

It's rubbish

This chick says not to beg but literally just begged for subs 😂

Thank you so much ❤️

Thank you for doing this video @ashleynord there's none out there!

I have been feeling so hopeless recently and this video was exactly what I needed. Ready to try and less afraid to fail now ❤

You describe my wife to a T. We are currently separated because of this.

Also - the use of SSRI medication and anti-anxiety medication can disconnect you from feelings of romantic love (Propranolol especially) and Prozac can kill your sex drive. It may not be falling out of love so much as your pills are killing your ability to connect with your feelings correctly.

Love it! Thanks for the clarity!

What an awesome topic! Never imagined this existed...

My ex she has moved on seeing another guy and We have kids and live together still due to easiness and less financial problems and both have easy access to kids , it’s really hard on me seeing her everyday as we’ve been seperate for 6 months and I get mixed emotions still just having hard time to let go.

my ex and i, we're in the same class. we're in college and we have to see eachother every day. he was so jealous and i couldn't take it anymore. even though we breakup for a reason like this, its so hard to think about that i have to see him 2 more years. i hope things get better.

By people, she means women obviously

my girlfriend broke up with me and i feel so guilty because looking back, she treated me so well, she forgave me a lot, and all i did was ask for more and try to control her and try to get more and more attention from her, when all she wanted was a stable relationship with room for both our lives. but i wasn't ready, i dont have a life im fulfilled in yet and i dont have the emotional maturity or im not healed from trauma enough to have a relationship with someone, and jumping in with her makes me feel even worse. she wasnt very emotionally available for me either but i feel like that's just a result of my behavior. i dont know i feel like the worst person ever and i wish i could go back and try again

my ex broke up with me FOR someone else. it sucks

Incredible video: I gained so much clarity thank you

Thank you, I needed this today. I appreciate your approach.

Remember kids: good relationships = stability = boredom. Just like a peaceful Sunday may seem boring, however a morning in Rafah is anything but boring. Value your peace….

Word of advice, this applies to men and women. Do not check their social media, I learned the hard way. I'm doing a little better now, but at first when I checked on my ex's Insta and saw them with their new partner it destroyed me. I learned the hard way, wishing the best for everyone going through heartbreak.

I asked him to block me because I couldn't control looking, and he refused. He said, "I'm trying to prove something to myself. "

hi i just wanted to say that your channel is awesome and you inspire me to create my own youtube channel. 😊 greetings from Poland you are great!!!!

I so appreciate your wisdom, heart & soul sharing Ashley!

My family accidentally saw my post (thought I blocked them) of my bruises from when my boyfriend beat me and have this impression he's a monster but he's not and we've been working through things, long story short while I was asleep in my family house one weekend my aunt got her guy friends to beat him up so badly when he wanted to visit me I had NO idea he came but I did want to see him. Anyways his family is retaliating they came up in groups of men glassing the house thinking I wanted that to happen now I'm fighting with my family and have cut ties with them. Police are involved on both sides but him and I are secretly messaging and sleeping together. This is extremely messy, will we ever get though it or should we just end it? His family hate me so much now and my family hate him and his family SO much especially after what they did while children were in the house. The funny thing is my life is no different without my family because I've always been with his.

This is the best video advice. Thank you ❤

I saw a picture of her and the new guy , and it totally destroyed me. She never posted about me on Facebook, and she looks so happy. Felt like all my healing went back to square one. My advice is to not check their social media. I know it's hard, I'm still going through it. We dated for 1.5 years and this guy has only been with her a few months, makes me question everything. I hope I never experience something like this ever again. I'd much rather stay single forever if this is what happens.

I’M 73 years old, and was married for 40 years of my life. After my divorce, I found myself, essentially, new to dating and ultimately to rejection. It has been 13 years since the divorce, and dating has been disastrous. Times have changed in terms of what is currently ‘customary” vs moral (or old-school). A year ago, I thought I had found the man I would spend the rest of my life with. He said the same. However, he began to be less available, and ultimately I asked him if he wanted me to move on. He said yes. He is five years younger than me, as was my second husband who decided after 30 years of marriage, he wanted someone 30 years younger than me! LOL. I laugh because she has made his life a living hell. So back to the present. I am experiencing my first heartbreak. I have never had a man choose to end a relationship with me. I am broken-hearted and struggling to believe there’s hope for me. The men I meet are either in very poor health or not fit. I, on the other hand, am 100% the opposite. My doctors say I’m in the top 1% of the population in my condition. My time for finding the love of my life, my last first kiss, my last first date is increasingly decreasing. I am at such a loss. So much of the advice I hear doesn’t address someone with that window that is growing ever smaller by the day. What I want to do right now is to encourage you to continue what you’re doing, young lady. You are exceptional in this area. I’m at such a loss; and as a woman who has excelled throughout her life, I’m now unable to see light at the end of this tunnel. Time is increasingly short, and the kind of men that are worthy of the woman my father raised me to be are scarce. I don’t want to be alone at this time in my life. I have much to offer; but, I don’t want to be someone’s nurse during these precious years. That said, I have listened to many relationship coaches and ‘experts’ on UA-cam. As I listen to you, I hear wisdom beyond your years. I find myself in a radically different culture where sex reigns and relationship is discarded and unnecessary.